Get Your Ex Back By Your Side

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 Getting your ex back isn’t a simple thing but it can be achieved in certain circumstances. There are many reasons for a relationship to end and sometimes these reasons can be dealt with and the relationship can be put back on the right track. Read on to discover how to get your ex back!


The reasons for splitting up are of course many; below is a list of the most common reasons which cause people to split up and how to get over them.


I want my freedom back: Sometimes people end their relationship simply because they feel that they want to be free and not to have the commitment which a relationship requires. If this is what your ex has told you, then you are in with a chance of sorting the issue out. Take note though and don’t pursue your ex too hard! Nobody likes a desperado! The trick is to allow your ex to see that you are not the type to stop them having their fun. Let them see you out and about and having just as much fun as they are searching for…even more fun if possible!


Book a trip away with your friends, organise a party…go all out to show that with or without them, you are a fun person to be around.


You’re too keen: If your ex has accused you of calling too often or of wanting to spend too much time with them then this is a bit of a tricky one to mend. It is possible they are feeling suffocated right now and simply need some time to themselves. Let them know that if they want to talk, you are there for them. Let them know that you have taken what they said on board and that you also feel that you need some time and space to yourself. That simple statement will already have your ex doubting their decision. When you take on board a fair criticism, you will instantly become more desirable. It’s a fact of life that nobody wants to spend time with someone who sucks up their energy so let them know that you are also going to move on and they’ll become instantly more interested.


I’ve met someone else: This is the hardest hurdle to beat but it can be beaten. If you are in the awful position of losing your partner to someone else, then you will know all about the pain this can cause. The first thing to remember is that your partner has ended things for a reason. The next thing to remember is that pursuing them obsessively will only drive them further away. Let them know once and once only, that you are there for them if they need you. Don’t repeatedly contact them again; as hard as this is, all it will do is annoy them and drive them away. Try to go out and enjoy life with your friends, if they have a change of heart and contact you, remain upbeat and cheerful…we always want what we can’t have so letting your ex see that you don’t need them (even if the opposite is true) will help to bring them back to you in the end.


Remember the golden rules of getting your ex back and you might just find that they realise what they’ve lost!

  • Don’t call them at all
  • Go out and have a good time with your friends
  • Let them see that you can be happy without them
  • Try to be kind to yourself



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