How To Make Your Ex Miss You

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As if it isn’t tough enough that you are heart-broken and no longer able to spend time with the person you most want to spend time with. Now you are burdened with a whole host of ugly negative emotions too. You probably feel some or all of the following: Unwanted. Rejected. Unloved. Unattractive. A little used. Empty. Devastated. Displaced, and likely a little angry too!

 

 

I am a  believer in the idea that when we fall in love, we also fall in love with ourselves. Our special person makes us feel like, well, a special person. We start to believe, (if we didn’t already) or the notion is reinforced, that we are pretty damned fantastic, actually! We see it in our partners eyes. We feel joy when we make them smile, laugh, help them out in some way. It reminds us of our worth and the person we love gives our ego a little boost  all day every day. We come to depend on it; our drip-fed love medicine subconsciously sustaining us.

 

So when the time comes that your partner swiftly denies you those blissful little assertions. You are not only longing for that person, you are also longing to be made to feel good and whole again; to be reassured you are still that loveable person.

 

With the withdrawal of their love comes the painful extraction of all the positive feelings they wrapped you up in. It’s no wonder you feel like a lonely lamb that just got sheared in the depths of winter and kicked out to the kerb!

 

At this stage, more than any other, you are vulnerable and are most likely desperate to reignite his feelings for you. You want more than anything for him to want you and to miss you. Lets be honest the thought of him in excruciating psychological pain, pining for you, unbelievably sad and sorry for the rash decision that he made makes you smile just a little. The idea of him concocting a plan to climb mountains and endure blizzards to get to you;  sweep you off your feet and never let you again is more than a little appealing. (Make no apologies here for a bit of fanciful and self-indulgent fantasy at this time of crisis)

 

With this in mind you need to arm yourself with some knowledge of male psychology and use some psychological tricks to make that happen…(well perhaps not that exact scenario)
Men want what they can’t have so make yourself unavailable and seemingly unobtainable. The decision may have been his to end things but seeing you getting on with life apparently unaffected will drive him crazy.
Men like to feel in control so if you are tempted to call him, text him or pay him a visit, don’t! Seeing you quivering on his doorstep with a stream of snot, and mascara-filled tears running from your pleading bambi- eyes while you beg him to reconsider is not attractive and not a healthy way to get him back. You don’t want him to take you back out of pity. Telling him what a wreck you are without him will only ensure his ego gets fed while he, and more importantly YOU,  lose respect for yourself. Emotional blackmail is not pretty either!

 

Every man was once a little boy who received the majority of their love and nurturing from their mother, or a mother figure. Their craving for this kind of soft, feminine affection is not satisfied by his mates. This leaves you with the upper hand. You have the goods, and he once sought that attention from you. I am not telling you to be his mother-figure! Far from it. But there are only so many women in a mans life he will feel safe with enough to accept that kind of affection from; the women he loves and has loved. You were once that to him. If you let him see you are still that warm, calm, caring person-  but that you are that person without him too he will be enraptured. He will soon realise he doesn’t like the thought of you giving that kind of affection away to another man. He will miss it.

 

Ultimately, if he has been foolish enough to let you go then he no longer deserves your affection or attention! Withdraw it and his curiosity in you will pique. You will become the mysterious creature he longs to get to know again. In short he will miss you.

 

If you want to know what a man secretly expects after a breakup, or you’d like to find out exactly how to put you back on his mind, read the book no man wants you to know exists:

Paperback: Ignore the Guy, Get the Guy – The Art of No Contact: A Woman’s Survival Guide to Mastering a Breakup and Taking Back Her Power

Kindle Edition: Ignore the Guy, Get the Guy

 

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In this book you’ll learn…

-Why silence is golden…
-Why a strong woman steals the show…
-How to prevent a man from losing interest…
-Why women lose the battle of the breakup…
-How to make him miss you…
-How to handle your emotions…
-How he broke up and what it says about him…
-How to handle a breakup through Facebook and Twitter…
-How to SKY ROCKET your self confidence…
-What the biggest attraction killer is…
-How to be on Mr. Ex’s Mind…
-What you should do to get him back …
-Fatal mistakes you might be making without knowing it…

If you’ve ever let yourself fall to pieces, cried, begged and pleaded for a man to take you back after a breakup, or if you have ever sought closure, you’ve never learned the art or the power of no contact.

 

 

 

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